Join a safety support community of over 6 million women worldwide.
We help women navigate the dating landscape by providing resources, real experiences, and a strong community that looks out for one another.
Are We Dating The Same Guy? (AWDTSG) is a worldwide network of over 6,000,000 women across 200+ cities, dedicated to protecting and empowering women in the dating world.
Founded by Paola Sanchez, our groups help women share information, recognize red flags, and support each other in making safer dating choices.
AWDTSG is more than just a community—it’s a movement dedicated to empowering and protecting women in today’s dating landscape. With over 6 million women in 200+ groups worldwide, we provide a space where women can share experiences, identify red flags, and look out for one another. By offering a support network that spans across cities and countries, we help women make informed decisions, avoid dangerous situations, and reclaim control over their safety and well-being.
We believe that every woman deserves access to safety tools without financial barriers. Many background check services charge fees for public information, but we work to educate women on how to find and use free, publicly available resources to protect themselves. Our platform provides court record searches, sex offender registries, and other essential safety tools to help women verify information and make safer choices when navigating relationships. As we grow, we continue to expand our list of resources to ensure women everywhere have the knowledge they need.
What started as a single Facebook group in NYC has transformed into a global movement advocating for women’s safety. Led by Paola Sanchez, the AWDTSG network has faced legal challenges, online threats, and even real-world dangers—but our commitment has never wavered. The movement isn’t just about exposing bad actors; it’s about creating a future where women feel safe, supported, and empowered in every aspect of their lives. With the launch of our mobile app, AWDTSG is taking safety to the next level, ensuring that our community remains strong, protected, and always growing.
We know safety is a top priority, and you may have questions about how AWDTSG works, how to join, and what resources we offer. Here, you’ll find answers to the most common questions about our community, groups, and mobile app.
AWDTSG (Are We Dating The Same Guy?) is a global safety support community for women, with over 6 million members across 200+ cities. Our mission is to help women navigate dating safely by sharing experiences, identifying red flags, and providing essential safety resources.
Our groups operate as women-only spaces where members can anonymously post about their dating experiences, warn others about potential dangers, and seek advice. Each group is carefully moderated to ensure a safe, respectful, and supportive environment for all members.
We have groups in cities across the USA, Canada, and beyond. If you're unsure whether your city has an official AWDTSG group, visit our website or search for your city name along with "Are We Dating The Same Guy?" on social media platforms.
To join, find your city’s AWDTSG group on Facebook and request access. Each group has strict membership criteria and rules to ensure safety and authenticity. You'll need to answer a few screening questions before being approved.
Join a safety support community of over 6 million women worldwide.
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Join a safety support community of over 6 million women worldwide.
We help women navigate the dating landscape by providing resources, real experiences, and a strong community that looks out for one another.
