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AWDTSG is a global movement transforming the dating landscape from a game of chance into a network of collective safety. Founded by Paola Sanchez, AWDTSG operates a worldwide network of communities where over 10,000,000 women in 250+ cities empower one another to stay safe from dangerous or toxic patterns.
What began as a single “Are We Dating The Same Guy?” Facebook group in NYC has evolved into a vital safety infrastructure over the last 4 years. We implement a neutral oversight system where moderators manage groups outside of their own local areas. This removes personal bias and protects our volunteers, ensuring our communities thrive where others have struggled.
AWDTSG by the Numbers: Real-World Accountability
Our impact is measured in the harm we have helped prevent and the justice we have helped women around the world achieve.
The transparency provided by our community platform has dismantled the secrecy that perpetrators and scammers rely on, including:
The Fight for the Future
We are currently fighting for women’s right to safety on multiple fronts. This includes navigating complex legal challenges, such as the ongoing battle in Chicago, where we are defending the fundamental right of women to share their experiences and protect one another from harm.
After being de-platformed by Apple and Facebook removing our groups without warning, our goal is to launch a web-based version of the platform, creating a dedicated women’s community platform to directly disrupt the unsafe aspects of modern dating
AWDTSG started as a single Facebook group in New York City, but it quickly grew into something much bigger. As more women joined, it became clear that there was a real need for a space where women could share their experiences and support one another in dating safety. What began as a small community has now expanded into a worldwide network, with thousands of daily posts and countless testimonials from women who have avoided dangerous situations thanks to the support of our groups. AWDTSG continues to grow every day, proving just how powerful women can be when they stand together.
We believe in strength through community. Our goal is to provide women with the tools, resources, and support needed to navigate the modern dating landscape safely. Whether through our online groups, safety resources, or our upcoming mobile app, AWDTSG is committed to making a real difference in women's lives by ensuring they have access to the information they need to protect themselves and each other.
Paola started this movement with nothing but her cellphone and a belief that safety should not be a luxury. As a first-generation college graduate and the daughter of two immigrant parents, she learned the value of resourcefulness and hard work early on. This perspective is why she has fought so hard to keep these groups accessible to all.
A Path Defined by Adversity
While honored to lead AWDTSG, the work is not always easy. Because our work empowers women to speak their truth, Paola has faced significant threats of harassment and violence.
Despite the stress and the obstacles, she has dedicated her life to these groups and this movement. She’s worked endlessly to ensure that AWDTSG continues to be available to those most in need and is proud of those who have helped her along the way, including the hundreds of moderators that give their time.
The Vision
Paola’s motivation is to ensure that every woman can date safely. She’s grateful for this opportunity to turn a simple idea into a global “Army of Survivors”. Together we are making dating safer — one city at a time.
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